To be fair, this week’s Cheap Thrill is not a new idea.
I’ve heard it suggested in many different forums, read about it in a few books, and watched it play out in a movie or two. That said, it is sort of a fun challenge, and I’m daring you to do it sometime this week. That’s right. I dare you. Double dog.
Here are your steps:
1. Choose a buddy. I especially like the idea of doing this with someone you see regularly in a way that could be perceived as “routine.” This person could be your significant other, a coworker, a close friend, or a sibling or parent or child… someone with whom you spend some time doing the sameoldsameold thing. It also helps if your buddy of choice is, well, down with crazy. Because they’re going to need a bit of a can-do attitude for this one.
2. Choose an activity that has an appropriate time and place, like eating breakfast or dinner, or rollerskating, or sleeping, or sitting on a couch, or watching a movie. You’ll be wise to choose an activity that doesn’t require help from professionals – for example, getting pedicures won’t work out so well here. Unless you DIY it up.
3. Choose a completely incongruous time and/or place to perform your activity of choice. This is where it gets fun. Get together and make pancakes at 2am. Go rollerskating in the snootiest neighborhood in town. Stage a sleepover on your front porch. Load a loveseat into a truck and take it up a hill to sit and watch the sunset. Form a knitting circle in a popular bar on a Friday night. Grab your laptop and a DVD and have a movie afternoon at the beach. Go for a walk in the pouring rain. Agree to meet for coffee at 4am, bring a french press and a blanket, and chat until the sun comes up. Get all dressed up and go eat at McDonald’s. Do something in a way that you’ve never done it before.
4. Enjoy seeing your chosen buddy in a new context. Laugh about that time you met for hamburgers on the roof at midnight for years and years to come. Learn something about each other, form a bond, mend a distance, create a moment.
5. Tell me what you do! I’m dying to know if you’ll try it.